Whether or not you planned to be a father, there may also be a kid who falls in love with you, too.

Single mothers are the dating world's best kept secret. So many men are often put off by dating a single mom and I have to say it's a little mystifying to me.

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While our coupled friends are planning to run a marathon together, I’m still trying to find a babysitter for our date next week. But I have a guard up to protect not one, but two people.

We don’t even have the freedom to make love, cuddle, and sleep next to each other whenever we so desire. If I get hurt, I don’t function well, and that affects my parenting, which in turn affects my child, and all I want to do is protect my child. I’ve acquired a lot of strength and resilience in life, but it doesn’t mean that my vulnerability to love has waned.

Our benchmarks as a couple are totally different, the obvious being your relationship with my child. If anything, I am more vulnerable because I am more serious about my time and my relationships.

Just like shared hobbies and travel experiences can help bond two people, your relationship with my son helps bond me with you. When you treat me well, you’re treating my kid well. This is the one that ties a neat bow around the whole thing.

Great Sex Speaking of playmates — our hormones have done a lot of things and the likelihood is that we're in our 40s or close to it, which means, gentlemen, that we're in our .

I don't know of one single mom who isn't looking to have her mind blown sexually.

Overall, it is a thrilling position to date a single mother.

Be prepared to have a woman who is upfront, passionate, and nurturing.

They help us grow together, experience things, and even help determine our compatibility.